I was reading Ms Sarah's blog the other day, and she had listed some advice about calling a Phone Mistress, which I think was very nice and useful. Check it out if you get a chance. Anyway, it got me thinking about some of the advice that I, after the couple handfuls of calls I've done now, could offer to new or curious callers. Of course, you may find that some of this doesn't apply to your situation.. Maybe none of it... But they're all things that I have found to make my sessions much nicer. (My apologies to Ms Sarah for any overlap.)
1. Call when you have time to spare, especially if you want to call a particular mistress. There have been several times when Ms. Kate has been on a call when I've called, and I've had to wait in line. When you are short on time, this can be incredibly stressful.
2. Take a deep breath. If possible, sit alone in a quiet room and breathe deeply for a few minutes before you call. Centering yourself will help you enjoy the call so much more.
3. Be very, very attentive to your mistress. You may have a delay or feedback in your phone, or maybe you're just a bit too excited to hear straight. If you are patient, and allow your mistress to guide you, you'll be glad you did.
4. Be honest. If you have agreed not to have an orgasm between calls, or to go shopping for something special, or anything else like that... Do it. If you don't do it, be honest and tell your phone mistress. (Yes, I realize there is nothing forcing you to do what you're told, but you might as well get the full benefit from calling a premium service such as Black Book Girls or Cock Control.)
I'll level with you... I haven't yet been unable to complete a "homework" assignment from Ms. Kate, but I have been doing this long enough to know I would tell her if I couldn't. Any other way would just ruin what my particular process is all about. Again, your situation may be different. :)
5. Be respectful. I don't think this should need more explanation, but please remember that these women are gracious enough to IM, email, and chat with you to set up a session that will be the most enjoyable for you. The least we can do in return is to treat them like the goddesses they are, right? And I believe Ms Ally, Internet and phone fantasy genius, has suggested finding your mistress's wish list and buy her something by way of a tip if you have fun.
6. Above all, HAVE FUN! You can have the time of your life if you just let yourself enjoy it!
So, what do you think, kids? Helpful? Out of line? Any mistresses want to throw in their two cents in? I'd sure welcome it!
Have a good one, everyone!